Care is something one learns by observing the way careful/caring people live. It is not a quality that can be learned from a text on moral psychology or Buddhist ethics but only by living and interacting with human beings who embody it in their speech and acts. And if you, too, live your life in a caring and care-full way, that will have the effect of inspiring others to do likewise.
–Stephen Batchelor, After Buddhism: Rethinking the Dharma for a Secular Age
Chris Wallach and I Inter-Are
